What to get the couple who has a child?
(Besides an IOU for babysitting?)
Well, most of my friends with children are scattered around the country so I head towards mail order gifts. Also because I am the WORST when it comes to procrastinating and will probably not get around to doing this until December 24th at 9:00 p.m. Even for my friends who celebrate Hanukah.
1. Honest Co. Family Essentials Bundle (referral link)
I'm usually reluctant to try new products when it comes to my home, especially if I can't hold the bottle and smell it in person. I have an immense fear of cleaning product commitment. (I asked to have this included in the prospective DSM-V, but am still waiting for field trials.) But I did try the Honest Co. products and really liked them. All the products are eco-friendly and perfect for households with babies and kids and parents who are trying to eliminate harsher cleaning products from their homes. Plus, they smell good!
This would also be a great housewarming gift or for a someone newly out of college.
2. Blue Apron Grocery Delivery
Going to the grocery store with a kid can often be like an expedition up K2. Especially at the beginning, I would get home exhausted with a cranky hungry baby, realize that I forgot at least three key ingredients for any kind of edible meal, and melted ice cream. I read about Blue Apron in a recent Daily Candy email and thought it was genius. They deliver all the groceries you'll need for three healthy complete meals, plus the recipes. For someone who loves to cook, but is often short on meal ideas (hand raised and waving around) this sounds amazing. Blue Apron currently only delivers in the Northeast, but another great idea would be a gift card to Peapod, FreshDirect or any other grocery delivery service.
I'll often read about all these awesome cocktail bars where people do crazy things like wear heels (!) and earrings (!!) and maybe even lipstick (!!!). And then I think about how I'd have to get a babysitter, pay said babysitter, get dressed up, go to these bars, fight a crowd of cooler people, read a cocktail menu and pay $15 for said cocktail. And honestly, I'd probably just end up with a scotch on the rocks and leave before the cool crowd even got to the bar. The idea of staying in my jammies and making cocktails with my husband (and maybe some friends) sounds really nice. Enter Julibox. Each month they send you all the components (booze and mixers), plus a recipe for a "mixologist" approved drink. I heard about this from Belle at Capitol Hill Style and basically just want to get it because she tweeted a picture of an adorable tiny bitters bottle.
You could pair it with this giant ice cube tray for a cute gift or, if your friends are more wine people, check out the gift subscriptions to The Tasting Room. Also a cool idea, these Pairings Boxes from Turntable Kitchen pair food and music delivered right to your door.
Look, no parent is going to get tired of pictures of his or her own child. Seriously. It's like an addiction. So, instead of being forced to look at their iPhone for four hours at every meet-up, give them a gift to allow them to print out pictures in a stylish way. I've seriously loved everything I've gotten from Pinhole Press, from calendars to note pads to framed pictures. They have great customer service and the site is easy to use. Highly recommend for all your indulgent baby photo needs. Another option for those who love Instagram (and, who didn't? and still won't because we'll forget all about the terms of service kerfluffle) try Printstagram or StickyGram.
Alright. This is kind of a cop out. But truly? The best gift you can give your friends with kids? Time with you! One of the things I miss from my pre-baby lifestyle is just being able to hang out with friends, have a few drinks, and not worry about getting back to a babysitter. Make dinner or pick up takeout, bring it to your friends' house. Bring prosecco and paper plates. Ignore the pile of laundry and that stupid sound puzzle making woofing noises in the corner. Enjoy. Happy Holidays to everyone!